Wednesday, August 21, 2013

Just Passin' Thru...



So if you’re serious about living this new resurrection life with Christ, act like it. 
Pursue the things over which Christ presides. 
Don’t shuffle along, eyes to the ground, absorbed with the things right in front of you. 
Look up, and be alert to what is going on around Christ—that’s where the action is. 
See things from his perspective.

-Colossians 3:1-2 (the Message)


 

This past week we took a momentous road trip. Momentous in the sense that we covered a lot of ground in a few short days.

6 days. 6 states. 4 Great Lakes. 

Our first stop was Ohio to visit my parents & to pick up Chuck's new motorcycle that he purchased from my dad. We continued on to Michigan to celebrate the marriage of some of our dearest friends. & then on back towards our home in Minnesota. Instead of taking the busy city way thru Chicago, we opted to skirt along Lake Michigan thru the Upper Penininsula.  As we drove over the Mackinaw bridge & I began to tell my daughter about how her Auntie Nini & I had walked the bridge one summer, something surprising happened. My eyes filled with tears & my heart longed to stay.

You see, I grew up here... just a few miles by water from the bridge in Cedarville. A little town nestled on the shores of Lake Huron surrounded by islands called the Les Cheneaux. 

Somewhere along the way my little family has developed a deep emotional connection to the Les Cheneaux Islands.  There is something magical about this place. When we lived here we loved nothing better than to drag our kayaks to the rocky beach in front of our house, climb in & push off.  We were so blessed to spend many glorious days basking in the sun, a cool breeze at our backs, paddling along the jagged shoreline of the Les Cheneaux.  As much as we loved its familiarity, each time we ventured out, we were amazed yet again by the wild beauty of this place.  We marveled as we paddled through the deep cold water, over the rough rocks, some as big as houses, & gazed into the dense green forest.  It was like experiencing a miracle, a little bit of heaven, every time.

As adults we now realize why people that grow up here, come back.  When we were teens, we couldn’t wait to get out.  We were going to shake off the dust from that little ole’ town & start our lives in the “real” world.  And yet, we kept gravitating back here.  Oh, we managed to stay away for about a year & then we just couldn’t help ourselves.  At first, we came back to visit our families on holidays but after they moved on to other places, we continued to come.  We came as 'fudgies' and rented a cabin at Spring Lodge for a week during the summer that gradually stretched into two.  When God brought us back here to live & serve in our home church in 2001, it seemed the most natural thing in the world for us to do. 


I have to admit that it was with heavy hearts that we left a thriving ministry to follow God back out into the world six years later.  If we had had it our way, we would have stayed here in the wilds of Michigan forever.  We had every intention of staying put; watching our children grow up, seeing them graduate from Cedarville schools, working & maturing in the ministry of the church we had grown up in & finally, growing old in a little cottage on the lake.  But we know that God’s plan for us isn’t always what we think it will be. So, as difficult as it was for us to leave the comfort of our home & ministry to face this new unknown, we knew we must be faithful.  We must be willing to follow Him even to the ends of the earth… even to Minnesota.

God was faithful & it was an amazing move for us. I have to admit though, that I sometimes find myself desperately homesick. & while a short two hour drive to Duluth boasts many of the wonderful things we love about the U.P. it just isn't quite the same. 

Today as I mulled this all over in the confines of my library cubicle, it struck me that how I feel about the U.P. is often how believers feel about heaven. C.S. Lewis once said, ""We don't have a soul. We are a soul. We happen to have a body." Somewhere deep down inside our souls we know that this world is not our home... our real home is in heaven. 

It's a tricky balance really... our souls longing for heaven & our bodies living here on earth. Just as I need to remain focused on the life & ministry God has set before me & my family here in Minnesota, we as believers need to be careful that our longing to be there in heaven doesn't make us ineffective here in the world around us. We need to be present... allowing the presence of the Holy Spirit living in us to spill out onto everything we touch.  





"Have your heart right with Christ, and He will visit you often, and so turn weekdays into   Sundays, meals into sacraments, homes into temples, and earth into heaven." 
                                                               -Charles H. Spurgeon




            

Tuesday, June 4, 2013

Gag...

June 4:
Navigating Girl World...

Don’t think you are better than you really are. Be honest in your evaluation of yourselves, measuring yourselves by the faith God has given us.[b] "  -Romans 12:3 (NLT) 







Brace yourself... I’m about to rant…

My heart has been heavy for my daughter… so heavy that I’ve considered quitting my job so I can be more accessible to her as she begins to precariously navigate her tweens. You see she is 11. As I look around the world she is growing up in I am growing increasingly concerned. Her culture is encouraging her to grow up quickly… clothing stores make shorts shorter & shirts smaller, all types of media tell her that she needs to be thin & tall, have silky hair & clear skin. She is bombarded by images that scream at her to conform to what is in fashion at the moment. All this to be popular with her peers & attract the attention of prepubescent boys? Did I mention, she is 11.

As she approaches ‘middle school age’ I’m also becoming more aware of how the culture of her peers becoming increasingly hostile. No longer does she concern herself most with playing four square at recess… there are cliques in her world now… where the ‘populars’, can on a whim banish whomever they deem unfit to be part of their group.

For the rest of the month, I am going to be focusing on how to best counteract the new girl world… I am going to be brutally honest about what I am seeing & how I am struggling to find ways to encourage my daughter to rise above all the nonsense. It is my desire that she will have enough courage not to get sucked into the drama of middle school & that she will not lose sight of who God has created her to be… It is my prayer that I will be able to encourage her to forgive those that hurt her, that she be less concerned about being popular & more concerned about being compassionate & that she develop a heart of love for those who need a friend.

“What is right is not always popular and what is popular is not always right.” -Albert Einstein


If you want to follow my adventure into Girl World this month, stop by my Facebook page:  https://www.facebook.com/LisaMillerPelkey

Friday, May 31, 2013

The End... er... The Beginning...

May 31
Living a Life that Matters… 

“For I fully expect and hope that I will never be ashamed, but that I will continue to be bold for Christ, as I have been in the past. And I trust that my life will bring honor to Christ, whether I live or die. For to me, living means living for Christ, and dying is even better.” 
                                                                                                                –Philippians 1:20-21 (NLT) 

& so we’ve come to the end of it… the end of May & the end of Philippians.

Last night as I lay in bed, I was thinking how much I love Philippians. & while I know it’s time for me ‘break camp’ & move on, I just couldn’t help mulling over all of the things that God has taught me this month. Some things have been eye-opening & others have been really good reminders to ‘buck up’ & be joyful as I continue down the path He is showing me.

Here are a few things I love…

I love that Paul tells us that as we draw closer to Christ, our love for others will grow. I have found this truth evident over & over in my own life.

I love that Paul is aware that even though he is in prison, nothing can imprison the Gospel. Such a great reminder that while I have a part to play in sharing the Good News of Jesus… it’s not all about me.

I love what Paul shares about being a slave to the Gospel. How he implores us to work together towards the common goal of Christ, to be humble, put others first & to be deep spirited friends.

I love what he says about being joyful no matter what the circumstances, encourages us not to worry but to be content in all things.

& here is what I think I love most… or maybe this is just what has convicted me most:

The way I live my life should demand an explanation.

Oh yeah.
I said it.

Our lives should DEMAND an explanation from a world who does not know Jesus.

Radical love. Extravagant grace. Supernatural peace.

Whoooohooooo!

These are the goals I’ll be striving for. 

             “Something is wrong when our lives make sense to unbelievers.”
                                             -Francis Chan, Crazy Love: Overwhelmed by a Relentless God

Thursday, May 30, 2013

Searching for the ever elusive ... contentment...


May 30:
Living a Life that Matters… 

Philippians 4:10-14

“I’m glad in God, far happier than you would ever guess—happy that you’re again showing such strong concern for me. Not that you ever quit praying and thinking about me. You just had no chance to show it. Actually, I don’t have a sense of needing anything personally. I’ve learned by now to be quite content whatever my circumstances. I’m just as happy with little as with much, with much as with little. I’ve found the recipe for being happy whether full or hungry, hands full or hands empty. Whatever I have, wherever I am, I can make it through anything in the One who makes me who I am. I don’t mean that your help didn’t mean a lot to me—it did. It was a beautiful thing that you came alongside me in my troubles.”




Contentment. It doesn’t really fit in our culture today does it? We are raised striving to tackle the next thing… college… career… marriage… parenthood… retirement.  We are a nation of planners that rarely veers off the path we create for ourselves. We make every effort to upgrade… upgrade our jobs… our homes… our cars… our education… our relationships. All this in the quest for contentment.

I have to admit, I’ve been caught up in this madness. Chuck & I worked hard to get the education he needed to ‘succeed’ in life (he worked long hours & I waited tables), we worked hard to save to buy our first house, to move into an area where our kids would have the best opportunities, we invested so we could retire when we reached 60, Chuck took positions at work that would make him more marketable in the workplace & would bring home a paycheck that afforded us a comfortable life. We were living the American Dream & still we were not content. 

When Chuck walked away from his high powered career to become a pastor. I grieved. I grieved for the hard work ‘gone to waste’. For the things I would never have…. the home I would never own… the vacations we would never take… the opportunities our children lost… for how hard life would be. It felt like such a sacrifice then having to go back to work outside our home, not going to have my nails done every week, not going shopping or meet my girlfriends for lunch every day, not having to worry about how we would pay the bills or plan for the future.  

Here’s the surprise… I am more peaceful now than I have ever been.  Don’t get me wrong, I still have moments when I am restless… I’m actually struggling right now to be at peace in my job. Although now I feel that my anxiousness stems from somewhere deep inside my soul that is longing to DO something that really matters. What a change! God has worked so intricately & often times painfully, in my heart that I have learned to be content where I am… I no longer yearn for those ‘things’ that were once so important. 

I am content to rest in Him… to allow Him to give… & to take away… 

My life. 

My life belongs to Him. 



"May today there be peace within.
May you trust that you are exactly where you are meant to be.
May you not forget the infinite possibilities that are born of faith in yourself and others.
May you use the gifts that you have received, and pass on the love that has been given to you.
May you be content with yourself just the way you are. Let this knowledge settle into your bones, and allow your soul the freedom to sing, dance, praise and love. It is there for each and every one of us."
- Saint Terese of Liseaux

Wednesday, May 29, 2013

Worry wort...


May 29:
Living a Life that Matters… 

Philippians 4:6-9

“Don’t fret or worry. Instead of worrying, pray. Let petitions and praises shape your worries into prayers, letting God know your concerns. Before you know it, a sense of God’s wholeness, everything coming together for good, will come and settle you down. It’s wonderful what happens when Christ displaces worry at the center of your life.

Summing it all up, friends, I’d say you’ll do best by filling your minds and meditating on things true, noble, reputable, authentic, compelling, gracious—the best, not the worst; the beautiful, not the ugly; things to praise, not things to curse. Put into practice what you learned from me, what you heard and saw and realized. Do that, and God, who makes everything work together, will work you into his most excellent harmonies.”



When I was younger, I worried about everything. Would Chuck be sent overseas with the Marines.? Would my boys grow up to be heathens? Would there be enough money for groceries? Would I ever find a Christian friend? Would I always feel alone? Would I always feel inadequate? & on & on & on... I worried so much that a dear friend of mine gave me a ‘worry wart’. Similar to the picture above, it had bulging eyes & a freaked out expression. I worried… “Do I look like that”? 

So I dug around in an old concordance, opened my Bible & began reading Philippians with fresh eyes & an open heart… It changed my perspective… & thus began my yearly pilgrimage through this precious book.

Perhaps you too want peace in your troubled heart… maybe you long to be content, yet you hear the voices that say " be successful, be popular, be beautiful, be perfect". I cannot stress enough how we have to STOP listening to these voices. Instead we need to listen to God's voice.

We must take control of our mind. Here we are commanded to "be transformed by the renewing of your mind" We can do this when we hold the negative thoughts captive & dwell on the positive.

Ultimately, peace & contentment is more a shift in attitude than a change of circumstances.


“Never allow yourself to complain about anything–not even the weather. 
Never picture yourself in any other circumstances or someplace else. 
Never compare your lot with another’s. 
Never allow yourself to wish this or that had been otherwise. 
Never dwell on tomorrow–remember that [tomorrow] is God’s, not ours.”
 –Linda Dillow, Calm my Anxious Heart.